Talk Is Cheap with Dennis Schleicher

The Complete Idiot’s Guide to Tantric Sex by Judy Kuriansky – Thinks to Remember with Tantra Sex

2010-09-09T09:09:00.000-04:00

The Complete Idiot’s Guide to Tantric Sex by Judy Kuriansky – Thinks to Remember with Tantra Sex
By Dennis Schleicher
The Power of Dr. Judy's book:
The Complete Idiot's Guide to Tantric Sex, 2nd Edition
Kuriansky – Thinks to Remember what Tantric Sex is all about.
“The Complete Idiot’s Guide to Tantric Sex, 2nd Edition” by Dr. Judy Kuriansky is a GREAT read.

Remember that you should always maintain eye contact with your loved one and allow yourself to feel with more than just your penis. Your entire existence should be involved in the process. And your soul, according to Tantra, completes the experience.

Communication is still the greatest key to a healthy sexual relationship, so talk to her before, during and after your sessions. There's much more to Tantra than what's outlined here; do yourself a favor and learn as much about Tantra as you can.

Now, Tell Us All Your Positions & Comments, and Have FUN:

Be Safe-Dennis Schleicher Author of: Forbidden Love with a Married Man: E-mail Diaries

SEXUAL POSITIONS OF THE KAMA SUTRA

2010-09-01T09:09:00.006-04:00

Sexual Positions of the Kama Sutra
By Dennis Schleicher
The Flower in Bloom
Your woman draws up both of her knees until they nestle the curves of her breasts; her feet find your armpits. She cups and lifts her buttocks with her palms, spreads her thighs and places her heels next to her hips, while you caress her breasts.

Sounds difficult? Well, practice makes perfect.

The Jewel Case
Your legs should run parallel to hers, joining them from toes to thighs. Your woman can remain below you or you can lie side by side, in which case she should always be on your left.To add a twist to the element, your thighs can be interlaced as you squeeze each other in a pulsating rhythm. This is called "The Squeeze."

The Rustic
Get her to lie on her back with both her thighs pressed tightly together and make love to her, keeping your thighs outside hers. Because the vegina ends up embracing and engulfing the penis in its entirety, it becomes quite enjoyable.

Striking
Your woman is in a sitting position with raised thighs; her feet should be placed on either side of your waist. When you penetrate her, forcefully push your entire penis in and out of her.
The Cat
Have your woman lie on her stomach and grab hold of her ankles in your right hand and lift them high up. While you make love to her rub her face, neck and between her chest with your other hand.

The Tripod
While standing against or near a wall, firmly lift one of her knees with your hand and make love to her; leave her hands free to explore and caress your body.

The Buffet
While she's lying on the edge of a flat, sturdy surface, withdraw your penis completely from her vaginal area, and then penetrate her wholly in one shot. Do this continuously until she reaches orgasm chances are this shouldn't take too long).

Now, Tell Us All Your Positions & Comments:
Be Safe-Dennis Schleicher Author of: Forbidden Love with a Married Man: E-mail Diaries

Tantra and Sexual Awareness

2010-08-18T20:18:00.000-04:00

Tantra and Sexual Awareness
By Dennis Schleicher

Tantric sex is meditative, spontaneous and very intimate lovemaking. With Tantra you learn to prolong the act of making love and to focus on, rather than dispel, potent orgasmic energies moving through you, thereby raising the level of your consciousness.

Tantra transports sexuality from simply doing to actually being. There is no final sexual goal in Tantra, only the present moment of an ideal, harmonious union. Tantra teaches you to worship your sexual partner and to transform the act of sex into a sacrament of love.

Lovemaking between two partners, when entered with awareness, can be a gateway to sexual and spiritual ecstasy alike. Tantra, through sex, attempts to awaken powerful psychic energies within through which we can enter into higher states of consciousness.

Next Week “Sexual Positions of the Kama Sutra”
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The Power of Ecstasy Self-Bliss Love

2010-08-11T20:11:00.000-04:00

The Power of Ecstasy - Self-Bliss and Love

By Dennis Schleicher
Imagine that you and your partner could merge the dual nature of your sexualities into an ecstatic union through the act of lovemaking. Tantra will teach you and your lover how to merge your sexual energies into a ball of ecstatic bliss. Love-Making ='s Self-Bliss.

As sexual beings, we have the ability to raise the energy levels within our bodies and use it to experience mystical states of consciousness. In effect, we become "gods" of our own bodies. Tantra will help you transcend the boundaries of your mind, using sexuality and energy.

Next Week “Tantra and Sexual Awareness”

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Dennis

Author of: Forbidden Love with a Married Man: E-mail Diaries

Chakras the Essence of Tantric - Tantra Unites – Heightened Sexuality

2010-08-01T14:04:00.002-04:00

Essence of Tantric - Tantra Unites – Heightened Sexuality By Dennis Schleicher
The essence of Tantra is the full expression of existence; a merging with, rather than a withdrawing from, sexual energy. This energy is used as an ignition for firing the body's biological energy system, merging it (and you) with universal energy.

In Tantra, sex is used as the cosmic union of opposites, to create the polarity charge that connects with the primordial energy from which everything arises in the universe. In Tantra, sex is the totality of All.

The basic difference between unenlightened sexuality and Tantra is that sex becomes sacred and divine when you approach it from your heart and body, rather than solely from your mind. Tantra teaches you how to achieve this heightened sexuality.

Next week "The Power of Ecstasy"
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Dennis
Author of : Forbidden Love with a Married Man: E-mail Diaries

Tantra is about Sexual Freedom

2010-07-23T07:23:00.001-04:00

Tantra is about Sexual Freedom
By Dennis Schleicher

Tantra is the total surrender of all mental, emotional and cultural conditioning, so that universal life energy can flow through you freely. Tantra not only expands consciousness, it liberates it.

Tantra treats sexual energy as an ally, rather than something to be suppressed or discussed behind closed doors. It does not deny sex, in fact Tantra does the opposite by embracing sex. Tantra is the only spiritual practice that states that sex is sacred and not a sin -- even outside of marriage.

There is a beautiful word for sex in the Sanskrit language, and that word is Kama , which means that sex and love go together; they're undivided and indivisible. Most everyone is familiar with the classic 7th century Tantric scripture Kama Sutra, which deals directly with sex and love.

Next week Tantra Unites
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Forbidden Love with a Married Man: E-mail Diaries

Tantric 101 – Sexual Pleasure – Expand Orgasms and More

2010-07-16T07:16:00.000-04:00

Tantric 101 – Sexual Pleasure – Expand Orgasms and More

By Dennis Schleicher
Tantra is a mystical subject that is nearly impossible to define. Tantra is a spiritual, sexual science that is not static in its definition. When we embrace Tantra, we become more "complete." By identifying and stimulating our innate sensual spirituality, we discover parts of ourselves that have been repressed. Above all, we can learn to use Tantric energy for sexual pleasure and awareness.

Familiarity with Tantra can help a person enjoy their sex life to its fullest potential. It can help do away with guilt or fear, and Tantra can break down self-imposed or limiting cultural boundaries (as is the case in most Western societies).

Tantra teaches us to become familiar with our mystical nature, and when we do so, our boundaries (sexual and otherwise) expand. We enter into new realms of awareness, become empowered and are more fulfilled. In addition, the orgasms one could have experienced in this state of consciousness are incredible, explosive and potentially unending. Now, isn't Tantra worth a shot?

Next week find out about "Tantra is About Sexual Freedom"

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Dennis Schleicher http://OtherMan.typepad.com

Author of;

Forbidden Love with a Married Man: E-mail Diaries

Karma - Actions have a Direct Effect on Destiny

2010-05-18T19:18:00.003-04:00

Karma

“Yin Gou” Is the Chinese translation for Karma. The concept of Karma is recognized in many ancient philosophies and religions. The basic idea is that one’s actions have a direct effect on his or her destiny.

- Dennis

Forbidden Love with a Married Man: E-mail Diaries

Duct Tape, Breasts and Kim Zolciak Bravo’s Real Housewives of Atlanta Share All for NOH8 Campaign

2010-03-29T17:15:00.006-04:00

On November 4, 2008 Proposition 8 passed in California, amending the state Constitution to ban same-sex marriage. The defeat provoked a groundswell of initiative within the GLBT community at a grassroots level, with many new political and protest organizations being formed in response.
The NOH8 Campaign is a photographic silent protest created by celebrity photographer Adam Bouska (http://www.bouska.net/) and partner Jeff Parshley in direct response to the passage of Proposition 8. Photos feature subjects with duct tape over their mouths, symbolizing their voices being silenced by Prop 8 and similar legislation around the world, with "NOH8" painted on one cheek in protest.
Nearly one year since its inception, the NOH8 Campaign has grown to over 2,000 faces and continues to grow at an exponential rate. The campaign began with portraits of everyday Californians from all walks of life and soon rose to include politicians, military personnel, newlyweds, law enforcement, artists, celebrities, and many more.
The NOH8 Campaign has received overwhelming support from around the world, appearing on various local and national news programs and publications. The images are currently being used on various social networking sites to spread the message of equality, predominantly Facebook and Twitter. Eventually the images are expected to be compiled for a large-scale media campaign.

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Dennis Schleicher author of;
Forbidden Love with a Married Man: E-mail Diaries

Tantric is About Sexual Freedom

2010-03-28T19:19:00.004-04:00

Tantric is About Sexual Freedom
By Dennis Schleicher
Tantra is the total surrender of all emotional, mental, and cultural conditioning, so that universal life energy can flow through us freely. Tantric Practice not only expands consciousness, it liberates us to heightened sexuality.

Tantra treats sexual energy as an ally, rather than something to be suppressed or discussed behind closed doors, this is often done. It does not deny us sex, in fact Tantra does the opposite by embracing sex. Tantra is the only spiritual practice that states that sex is sacred and not a sinful.

There is a beautiful word for sex in the Sanskrit language, and that word is Kama, which means that love and go together; they're undivided and indivisible. Most everyone is familiar with the classic 7th century Tantric scripture Kama Sutra, which deals directly with sex and love.

Tell us what you Think and understand about Tantric Love?
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Dennis

Forbidden Love with a Married Man: E-mail Diaries

Turn Him On – Find and Keep the Man of your Dreams

2010-03-16T16:24:00.002-04:00

Turn Him On – Find and Keep the Man of your Dreams
Tell Dennis how to make a date? How do you know, if a guy is going to call you after the first date? Tell us your secrets?
Share with us, easy, practical, fun ways to develop a natural sense towards attracting Mr. Right. Not just, right now.
How do you turn him on? How do you go about finding the man of your dreams?
Post Your Comments;

- Dennis
Forbidden Love with a Married Man: E-mail Diaries

Sexual Journey to Self-discovery Ancient Secrets to Unlocking & Mapping our Own Prophecy

2010-02-22T06:46:00.000-05:00

Sexual Journey to Self-discovery Ancient Secrets to Unlocking & Mapping our Own Prophecy
By Dennis Schleicher
As you learn you will come to know how you can have, do anything, be anyone you want. You will come to know who you really are, come to understand the true magnificence that awaits you’re life. Discovering your destiny can take time. However, I believe at the moment of our very own experience the time of our birth every human is given a destiny that’s our life paths or challenge, develop ourselves and our own skills in order to fulfill this discovery of one’s self.

We all hold the key to an extraordinary tool that allows us to discover this journey from our past up until our present future. Profound knowledge to uncover prophecy is like discovering and finding something one’s lost and now was found.
If we are willing to spend some much needed quality time with our higher self through pray, mediation, or just as one.

by Dennis Schleicher
Forbidden Love with a Married Man: E-mail Diaries

The Best Ways of Developing a Lasting Loving Relationship: Time Management & Goals

2010-01-20T19:53:00.008-05:00

The Best Ways of Developing a Lasting Loving Relationship Time Management & Goals
by Dennis Schleicher
Have you dated “much”? How many Intimate relationships have you had in your lifetime? Are you still wondering why all those past relationships didn’t hold up to the tests of time, only now to leave you with apprehension and caution as to whether or not you could open your heart up again, to let the flow of love through your heart by attracting the same relationship again? Will my love succeed this time, you may ask yourself?
On a much deeper layer you must know why you act the way you do? As the other day I had a client ask me. “Why should she get up in the morning?” I told this particular person we need to work on being proactive in taking steps and actions to aggressively peel back the layers of hidden desires that lead to self worth and self acceptance.

Dennis's Recommendations

• Start a journal, either in a Word document or utilizing digital recording technology.
• Pinpoint three goals you would like to achieve in 2010.
• Narrow those goals down for morning, afternoon and evening exercises.

Example:
If one of my goals for 2010 was writing & publish a book on relationship advice. I would utilize time management by setting aside a half hour in the morning a half hour in the afternoon and a full hour in the evening. Now you've taking a large task and simplified it by dividing and conquering your time equals control ultimately leading to a more empowering life. Think about it? You've dedicated two full hour's by dividing your time into three sessions. With a total of two hours spent on writing a manuscript. Now times that by 365 days in the year and you have a total of 730 hours dedicated to writing your next New York Times bestseller.

So when it comes to developing a lasting relationship, utilize the examples of devoting X. number of hours per day, dividing that by three, separating your commitments. When focusing your time, a little in the morning, some more in the afternoon, and even more in your evening hrs, whether you're with a partner or by yourself this works, if you're single, trying to rekindle an old flame, or starting from a clean slate. The most important advice I could give anyone that calls or has a session with me: “never compromised your integrity or morals, go with your gut feelings.” Sometimes you need an objective opinion, either from a friend, a colleague, or a professional. Trust me, if I don't know the answer. I'll point you in the right direction.

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Creative Visualization Beyond ‘The Secret’ This is NOT 'Talk Is Cheap'

2009-12-03T13:28:00.001-05:00

Creative Visualization Beyond ‘The Secret’
Just for today I will NOT be angry at any thing or anyone. Just for today I will give thanks for our many blessings in life Just for today I will do my work honestly with all.
Just for today I will be kind to my neighbor and all living things.

Try saying this each and every day you wake up and see how the power of creative visualization can create what you want in your life.
--Dennis Schleicher
Best Selling Author of; Forbidden Love with a Married Man: E-mail Diaries

Relationship Coaching in the Comfort of your Home

2009-11-19T15:55:00.001-05:00

Relationship Coaching in the Comfort of your Home

Talk with a counselor in comfort from home. Online counseling is easier and more convenient than seeing a therapist in person. You can keep your privacy and choose to remain anonymous. Nobody else needs to know. Save time and money, start feeling better. Work out what to do next in your life. Online Counseling lets you choose from email, instant message chat, phone or webcam sessions with an experienced therapist. These sessions happen over the internet in the comfort of your own home or office by phone or Skype. You discuss anything that is important including finding direction or motivation, feeling happier and what to do about specific problems related to your relationships, thoughts or experiences. You can access confidential online counseling from anywhere in the world. For more information on fees or to make a appointment contact us @ tantric1@live.com

Your privacy is important.

Online counseling lets you speak to a therapist from the comfort of your home or office, or anywhere in the world that your business takes you. Phone or webcam session (60 minute sessions) You can choose either webcam or voice only. At the first appointment you can discuss your expectations and how you came to be seeking counseling or therapy. Instant chat (60 minute sessions) Text based counseling. This is a good choice if you can type and prefer not to use the phone or webcam service. The Skype application will provide you with a text record of the session. I prefer the phone or Skype. Email Exchange Send an email of up to 1000 words. You will receive written reflections and questions to assist you. The main benefit of email counseling is that you decide when and how often you write.

About Dennis

working as a relationship counselor and Tantric Coach for 16 years and has worked extensively with Tantric Sex Coaching, Blogging, Radio Show, working with men, woman, straight or gay wishing to explore or celebrate bodies. Tantra literally means a "tool for expansion." Outlining for spiritual transformation. Learning highly orgasmic techniques for reaching new heights of sexual arousal & intimacy. Dennis is considered a guru in relationship shifting that breaks traditional notions of what a couple should be. Men, Women that have denied their true sexuality in order to follow societal norm of the traditional marriage scenario are increasingly finding other options to “coming out”, families suffer collateral damage of lives that will forever be changed. Is there anyway to know my husband is gay? Support for the other man, gay husbands, straight spouse & wives of gay men. “Coming Out,” is not an event. It's a lifelong process of overcoming learned shame and increasing self-acceptance. I advocate that all gay men must strive to come out - fully. No one can truly be happy and thrive in the shame and secrecy of being in the closet - fully or partially. Dennis Schleicher Best-Selling Author "Forbidden Love with a Married Man." and has been a support group counselor working with all kinds of Coming Out.
Developing a Lasting Gay Relationship

Tantric Kissing, Sexual Energy

Developing a healthy Gay Relationship

Erotic Foreplay and Massage

Is He Gay? Straight, or Bisexual? What are You?

Multiple Orgasms

Sex to a Deeper Level, Peaking Together

Dennis’s approach has helped many and can help you to achieve the ultimate pleasures in your life. He has been called the ultimate Tantric Sex coach that will become your must-read for every man, woman, straight, or gay wishing to explore, confirm or celebrate our bodies. Dennis uses collaborative & narrative Therapy - practices influenced by the work many Doctors. He takes an interviewing approach instead of ‘advice-giving’. This model of therapy is gentle and respectful but has powerful results and to the point!!!

What Can Gay, Lesbian Bisexual & Transgender Counseling Do for You?

Do you need some support? Or are you wondering if you might be gay, lesbian or bisexual? Talk online and keep your privacy secure.

It’s confidential and easy. Our Therapy takes a respectful approach to:

Questions about how or if to tell others about your sexuality

Could you come out to your wife or loved ones.

All kinds of relationship issues

Feeling better after a relationship ends - how to move on.

Bullying and harassment at work, or elsewhere

Loneliness, how to find or make friends

Concerns about internet use

Sex related problems, Tantric coaching

Wanting to feel happier with life and your relationship with your self.

Dennis has many years experience assisting other gay men, lesbians, bisexual people and others dealing with sexuality. Or if Dennis is not the one for you his years of working in coaching he can help you find the Therapists for you.

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Dennis Schleicher Best Selling Author of; Forbidden Love with a Married Man: E-mail Diaries & Support Group Counselor

Tickling His Pickle Sex Secrets from Expert Advice

2009-10-07T11:56:00.004-04:00

Tickling His Pickle Sex Secrets from Expert Advice
by Dennis Schleicher
Learning highly orgasmic techniques and touches that are sure to rev up your intimacy will spark lost or new passion.
Meeting His Penis
Just like vaginas, dicks-c00ks-penises or what ever you want to call it will come is all sizes shapes, colors and variations. Some are small, big, or will surprise you by how they become when they grow with some TLC.
In the USA the average penis will come in at 2 to 3 inches in size, but with some more TLC this could grow 5 to 9 inches. (Don’t judge a book by its cover)
Other Areas of His Pickle to Explore
Foreskin: If he’s uncircumcised, carefully pull his foreskin to expose the head and find what kind of sensation feels best.
Frenulum: This is found on the underside of his penis, at the head. Find the sensation if any that’s experienced.
Perineum: This is the area between the anus and the testicles. (If your heterosexual or gay this is a highly arousal spot to find much pleasure.)
Anus: Again, I don’t care if your straight or gay the anus has many nerve endings. Find your partners sensitive spot. We all have one. (In the gay world much time is spent on finding out who is the ‘top’ or ‘bottom,’ well, I’m considered a 100% top and I still find great sensitivity & pleasure when rubbed during lovemaking.)
Asking what your partner wants is key. The women & men I work with can be reluctant to ask and tell there partners the truth when it comes to sex and hide behind their emotions.

Talk, Tell, & Trust is key…

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-Dennis Schleicher
Author & Radio Host
Forbidden Love with a Married Man: E-mail Diaries
This is a FUN new book I just found: "Tickle His Pickle Your Hands-On Guid to Penis Pleasing by Dr. Dadie Allison"

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Sex & the Language of Clothes

2009-06-20T18:05:00.003-04:00

Sex & the Language of Clothes

The clothes you wear can say a lot about your emotional state, confidence, feelings, and much more. We all use clothes to express many aspects of our personalities, to create a certain persona with which we try to impress others.

Researchers show we often wear more revealing clothes when we are feeling confident about your own sexuality.

How do you feel???
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Developing a Lasting Gay Relationship

2009-03-06T00:43:00.004-05:00

Developing a Lasting Gay Relationship
by Dennis Schleicher
Like all relationships that list over a long period, gay partnerships change and evolve as the years pass, but the change can occur over time just might happen so gradual both partners may not realize they are happening, and misunderstandings can sometimes arise. As the gay society has many deep issues dealing with self-esteem and self-worth, accompanied by years of societal conditioning that lends itself to manifest externally through self-worth.
Partners do not always pass from one stage of development of their relationship to the next at the same time, and so changes can be misinterpreted as a loss of interest. If, for instance, one partner is still in the passionate ‘honeymoon’ period of the relationship, craving sex at all times of day and night, while his partner has moved on to the less frantic second period, of their relationship development. Where the relationship emphasis is placed on home making along with developing a family, then there may be a mistaken perception that the relationship has run its course.
Gay relationships can extend over many decades, or they may last only one night. Whether long or short term, they should be treated with respect, and that participates should mean not only to pleasure each other's bodies, but to enhance each other's mind, and spirits. When you share something of yourself with another person, it should enrich you both, and when you offer your bodies to each other, it should involve more than just the ambition to achieve an orgasm.
It would be unrealistic to expect every sexual encounter to be a transcendental, life-changing experience. Sometimes there is no empathy, no concentration, no connection, no common ground between you and your partner, and you both except that you do not want to pursue your connection. However, when this occurs, you both should not treat yourselves with the lack of dignity that we deserve as human beings.

Please refer to my friends to book (Straight Acting) by Angelo Pezzote. Chapter 7, Solutions: how gay men can OPT OUT, Triumph and Thrive.

Post your comments and tell us what you think???

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Dennis Schleicher

Best-selling author of an explosive and controversial memoir; (Forbidden Love with a Married Man: E-Mail Diaries)

Forbidden Love with a Married Man: E-mail Diaries

Tantric Kissing, Sexual Energy

2009-02-15T15:27:00.005-05:00

Tantric Kissing, Sexual Energy

A kiss can be one of the most erotic exchanges between lovers. A kiss is often the first intimate physical contact with a new lover and some people believe they can tell a lot about a person's lovemaking skills by the way they kiss. Some people can reach orgasm through kissing alone.
Not wanting to be kissed by your partner is a signal of trouble in the relationship. Making kissing a daily ritual will embolden and ignite passion in your relationship and will keep the juices flowing.
Tantric Kissing
There are many different kinds of kisses: slow, quick, deep, wet, hard, soft, breathy, and then there is Tantric kissing. Kiss your lover at least twice a day and experiment with the different kinds of kisses below:
Eye brow kissing: Face your lover in Yab-Yum position, either woman on top or man on top, moisten each other's eyebrows and then lean into each other with brows touching. Feel the energy flow from one to the other uniting the two of you into a higher level of consciousness.
Synchronized kissing: Embrace in your favorite lovemaking position with lingam and yoni touching, but not inserted. Lips slightly open and touching as you both inhale together gently and exhale together, sharing and synchronizing the same breath.
Orgasmic kissing: In a loving face-to-face intercourse position with lingam inserted into yoni, lock lips, eye-gaze and one person inhales as the other person exhales, then the other exhales while the other inhales. Share the deep level of intimacy and feel your lover�s sexual breath enter your body and spirit.
More Kissing
Build sexual anticipation by kissing all around your lover's face with soft, baby kisses and use your hands to caress the face, hair or body.
Use your nose to nuzzle and your lips to caress to your lover.
Tease your lover by tracing the outline of his/her lips with the tip of your tongue.
Now put your heart and body into a slow kiss alternating the pressure from gentle to deep with mouth slightly open.
Take your lover's bottom lip between yours and suck gently. Make some sounds of pleasure.
Lick your lover's teeth with your tongue and increase your breathing to short rapid breaths.
Wrap your lips around your lover's tongue and suck passionately alternating your speed from slow to quick.

Explore the inside of your lover's mouth with your tongue by running it in small and large circles.
Dart your tongue in and out of your lover's mouth rapidly and then slowly as if you were having intercourse. Remember to use your entire body and make all those wonderful sounds of love.
Use hot or cold liquids to create new kissing sensibilities.

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Developing a Gay Relationship

2009-02-02T09:23:00.001-05:00

Developing a healthy Relationship

Relationships can extend over many decades or they may only last one night. Unfortunately short-term is to norm as this is brought on partially due to the psychology of our subconscious mind.

When the spark of mutual passion does strike it can be wonderful. What started out as no-questions-asked sexual encounter can wind up transforming your life, giving you a loving companion who will share your highs and loves, your dreams and secrets. This can give your instant access to sexual satisfaction and allow you to explore the deeper levels of erotic experience. Having sex with someone you love is a qualitatively different experience from sex with a stranger whom you will probably never see again.

What do you see as an healthy gay relationship?
Ask Dennis Schleicher you questions???

Books that I recommend;

Straight Acting: Gay Men, Masculinity and Finding True Love

The Intimacy Dance: A Guide to Long-Term Success in Gay and Lesbian Relationships

Gay and Single...Forever?: 10 Things Every Gay Guy Looking for Love (and Not Finding It) Needs to Know

Fed up with the Fact that Men have a Shorter Shelf Life than Sushi?

2009-01-26T00:36:00.000-05:00

Finding, let alone building, a strong relationship can still be challenging for gay men. The reason? Masculinity. All men, gay or straight, have been socialized to believe that to be overtly gay is unmanly and shameful. To compensate, many gay men adopt a macho, "straight acting" pose that blocks them from being their full selves, expressing their true feelings and forging real, lasting connections.
Because of this I am making “Straight Acting,” by Angelo Pezzote my Book-of-the-Month recommendation. Feel free to post your comments and reviews below;
In Straight Acting, Angelo Pezzote (AskAngelo.com) encourages readers to go beyond limiting ideas of how "real" men should behave, and leave behind out-dated ways of being that create stumbling blocks to deeper intimacy. Drawing on his years of experience as a gay psychotherapist and advice columnist, he offers practical and thoughtful relationship strategies, with tips on subjects that include coming out, dating, how to avoid falling for a player, how to maintain a sizzling, satisfying sex life, navigating open relationships, and much more. Most of all, he delivers crucial insights on the importance of ditching the macho act and learning to be true to yourself. Whether you're single and sick of it, wanting to move closer to your partner, or wondering how to meet someone for the very first time, let Angelo show you how to get real and get him. Put yourself out there to get--and keep--the love you want.

Imagination & Variation are the Secret

2009-01-23T21:11:00.000-05:00

Imagination & Variation are the Secret to Good Luck

Masturbation, most people’s first experience of sexual delight, is a pleasure that the majority of men continue to practice throughout their lives even by those who are in a permanent relationship.

Masturbation is undoubtedly one of the most commonplace sex act in the world. It’s the way in which we all first discover the joys of our own sexual nature. The practice of masturbation stays with us throughout our lives.

Tell us about your first time???

Tantric Sex Talk 101

2009-01-17T11:59:00.001-05:00

Tantric Sex Talk 101 with Dennis Schleicher

As you may or may not know Dennis Schleicher is a Tantric Sex coach. Through the publication of his explosives and controversial memoir "Forbidden Love with a Married Man," he unveiled many sexual techniques that made us all ask for more.

This Blog will be your ultimate Sex coach that will become your must-read for every man, woman, straight, or gay wishing to explore, confirm or celebrate our bodies.

Forbidden Love with a Married Man: E-mail Diaries

Erotic Massage & Foreplay

2009-01-09T12:09:00.000-05:00

Massage is an excellent way to relax your lover , build trust between you as manipulations are not only pleasant in their own right, they can become an important prelude to lovemaking.
You can add more overtly sexual element to your massage by kissing, licking and gently nibbling strategic areas as you start caressing the neck with your lips. Having created a great expectations for your partner, you can gently move into the genital area as you explore with your tongue, move to the nipples, which you could suck and lick gently.
When massage, always remember to watch closely the actions of your partner as if he or she looks anxious or uncomfortable, try something else. Massage can be enhanced by the use of feathers, lubricants, oils, and other sex toys.
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Massage increases blood flow, which will help your partner to be more receptive to pleasure & orgasm.

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What is Tantric Sex

2008-12-18T23:35:00.000-05:00

After you open to the new exciting path of Tantric sex, see how the following stages feel to you. Watch how a peaceful feeling washes over you-your breath becomes more even, your mind more festful-as you read these sentences:

1. I'm open to achieving peace in my inner being and experiencing the extent of my ability to love and feel ecstasy and higher states of consciousness, trapping into the fountain of youth, which can make me feel and look younger.

2. I am open to exploring new possibilities for love, intimacy and bliss with my partner.

3. I'm open to removing my own and my partner's emotional obstacles, past and present, to free us for experiencing more joy.

Is She Satisfied or Not? How to Tell? What to Tell Her After Sex?

2008-11-28T13:20:00.000-05:00

When you slow down, your're more focused on exploring every inch of each other's bodies.

I'm working on this!!!

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Is He Gay? Straight men, Bisexuality

2008-11-22T14:38:00.000-05:00

"Who you find yourself attracted to can sometimes surprise you, but allowing yourself to explore your feelings can result in unexpectedly fulfilling relationships." Michael Thomas Ford.

How to Make them Ache for YOU ALL DAY

2008-11-21T00:56:00.000-05:00

This is on it's way!!!

Multiple Orgasms, Your Main Event

2008-11-11T14:11:00.000-05:00

If you can master that first peak, the climb to your next one is absolutely attainable!!!

This is in the works, more to come!!!

Sex to a Deeper Level, Peaking Together

2008-10-29T02:19:00.000-04:00

Breathing in tandem helps your excitement levels rise at the same rate, which makes you feel physically melded together.

More to come........

Penis Pleasuring, How to Become a Genius?

2008-09-29T02:33:00.000-04:00

This is in the works....

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